Mr. Good Guy

Ladies, I just want to let you know that there are some very great guys out there. Do not waste your time with someone not worthy of you. I know that you are afraid to be alone again or that you will not find someone else. But if you do the work, he will find you. If you stay in an unhealthy relationship you will not attract him to you. You are actually repelling this great guy away from you.

These are the things you can expect from Mr. Good Guy:

• He will be there for you during the good and bad times.
• He will help you resolve problems.
• He will be a huge emotional support and even financial support.
• He will do little things just to please you.
• He will never let you go without your basic needs or those of your children (whether they are his or not is irrelevant), even if it means he has to go without his own needs. 
• He will be your child's dad (whether she is his or not is irrelevant).
• He will cheer you up when you have a bad day, by either making you laugh, doing something thougthful, or just listening to you vent.
• He will fully support your goals and dreams, plus he will help you achieve them because he believes in you.
• He will tell you how proud of you he is.
• He will introduce you to family and friends with pride.
• He will be focused on giving to you not taking from you.
• He will make you feel safe, secure, loved and cherished.
• He will do what is needed to keep the relationship healthy and alive.
• He will respect and honor you.
• He will want to be part of your life and meet your family and friends.
• He will not break your heart, and God help those who try to hurt or even upset you.
• He will wait for sex, until you are emotionally, physically and mentally ready, even if he really wants to have sex with you.
• He will respect your spiritual beliefs.
• He will not expect to win your affections until he does his time.
• He will worry about your safety and well being should you not respond to his call at a reasonable time.
• He will love your body and be attracted to you in spite (and sometimes because) you have a few extra pounds or other imperfections.

I can not possibly list all of the benefits of letting go of unhealthy relationships and healing your wounds in order for you to be the best you can be to attract a Mr. Good Guy. But you get the idea. You have nothing to lose, but a loser and in return you will be rewarded with Mr. Good Guy.