Many people have things backwards when it comes to love. They believe they have to put their life on hold until they attract "The One". But what I have learned about the Law of Attraction is that first you have to be happy with yourself and your life in order to attract a happy partner.
This does not mean that because you have a happy life as a single that you are not interested or you do not do what you can to attract love to you. But there is a difference between desire and desperation. When your life is lousy or you do not feel too good about yourself, you look for external things to validate you. These are the people who choose partners out of desperation and therefore end up with someone they will not be happy with long term.
When you love your life as a single person, you do not choose the first person who is interested in you romantically. You take your time to decide if the person is ideal for you long term.Your plan is to enhance your life, so you are careful that the person you are with does not disrespect you, add stress to your life, or make your life in any way worse than it is now.
But when you do not love your life or yourself, you are just looking for someone to attach yourself to. This ensures that you keep on avoiding your life and waiting for someone to rescue you from it. This also stops you from taking the time for getting to know yourself and learning to love yourself. Which is the real reason you are not attracting the love that you desire.
You also have to make sure you do not go to the other extreme. Being single because you are afraid of taking any risks, but hoping that one day maybe you'll magically end up with someone. Yet do not do anything to make this happen.
While you can not force love to happen, there are still some things that you could do to improve your chances on attracting love. Please contact on me on Facebook or at carbajalzulma@gmail.com for more information.
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