You Create Your Life

Those of you who understand the basics of how the Law of Attraction works, know that you create your life with your thoughts and emotions. However, you may not know that your subconscious and your soul also have a significant say on what will be created in your life.

In fact, your subconscious and soul are so powerful in the creation process that no matter how hard you work at consciously creating your desires, if your desires do not resonate with either your subconscious or soul then you will not attract what you desire.


The Subconscious Mind

The subconscious could be changed so that you attract your desires, but it will take some conscious and determined work on your part. However, it is absolutely necessary that you do change it especially if you are finding yourself attracting the same negative circumstances repeatedly. Your subconscious went through programming from the day you were born until the age of seven. Between this time you learned how to be a "people". You were also dependent on the love of your parents in order to get your basic needs met. So your little mind decided that the best way to win and keep the love would be to emulate your parents. You concluded that the more you were like them the more they would love you.

For those of you who insist that you are nothing like your parents, there are some beliefs that remain in your subconscious which are sabotaging the accomplishment of your desires. For example, let's say that your parents constantly fought over money. Your father worked hard to earn a living and your mother spent it on useless things.  You might have a subconscious belief that money repels love and causes people to fight. If you maintain this belief then you will have a hard time attracting money. Consciously you are aware of the necessecity of money in our world, but subconsciouly you keep it away because you do not want to lose love or fight for money.

Another example, your parents had a dysfunctional marriage. Even though they would say everything is fine not to worry, you witnessed many fights. Even if you didn't, you saw your mother crying all the time and talking to her friends and family about how much she suffers being married to your father. Your subconsious collected this data in a file called "Women Suffer When Married" by the age of seven.  Maybe when you got older you discovered that your mother was not all there and has a tendency to be overly dramatic. Her favorite role to play is the "victim" when in fact she is bully.

While you are consciously aware of this and realize how ridiculous your mother behaved,  when the time comes to meet your mate you attract people you could not possibly be with long term. You figure it is just bad luck or that there are just no good men out there anymore. When in reality what is happenning is that your subconscious fears based on what you gathered by the age of seven is what is keeping you from attracting a suitable partner. Your child mind was not able to determine that your mother was a bit loony and exaggerated the woes of her married life in order to get attention. Even though as you got older you figured it out, your subconscious kept your childhood beliefs on file.

The other thing that may happen is that you may indeed get married. Perhaps even to a good person. But because you still have the subconscious file  "Women Suffer In Marriage" you find yourself having an unhappy marriage as well. This is because your subconscious brought you what you truly believed.

Take a look at what is happening around you. This will be a clue of your subconsious beliefs.  What you do not like in your life is a clue of what needs to be healed and changed. I read Dr. Wayne Dyer's new book called Wishes Fulfilled,  and he says that what we create is determined 96% by our subconscious and 4 percent by our conscious. No surprise people who know about the Law of Attraction, but are not getting the desired results, believe that the LOA does not exist.   If they believe it does, they assume it just does not work for them.


 The Power Of Your Soul

Your soul is even more powerful than your subconscious. Your soul could guide and help you override your subconscious beliefs. However, you need to listen to the guidance. It will not intrude on your free will to continue to live in misery. Your soul also helps you learn certain lessons so if what you are wishing to attract will keep you away from learning a big important lesson, you will not attract it. If it wont interfere with a big lesson and your desire may actually benefit you, then you will get the soul's assistance.

If the lesson is a minor one, you could still gain the cooperation and help of your soul. Let me explain. You are here to learn huge lessons and little lessons. Before you were born, you chose your Life course. Much like you would pick classes in college, you pick your classes in life. Just like in college some classes are required in order to pass the course. Others are not so important and you can take them or leave them. You may also substitute one class for another in certain cases.

Your ego and personality have little say when it comes to the big life classes. Your soul might allow you to have your ego ways for a while as long as it does not interfere with your life purpose. However, if you are in danger of going off the path, your soul will find a way to guide you back. If you do not listen when the soul gives you gentle nudges and clues that you have gone too far away from what you are meant to do here, it will create something that will be impossible for you to ignore. It could be an illness, job loss, divorce, etc. Please know that it is not done in any way to punish you. Your soul is just doing it's job. Your soul is saying, "Friend, you are going the wrong way, you will never accomplish what you are here to do if you go that way.Turn back..quick." If you ignore the warnings your soul will then say, "Friend you have gone too far, let me help you get back on the path."

Ofcourse if you are dealing with extreme challenges it is understandably hard for you to see how these challenges could possibly be good for you. But what you have to remember is that our ego personality thinks differently than how our soul thinks. The ego looks at the material and superficial. The soul looks deeper and the focus is on the big picture.

So as you see it is not that the LOA does not work. What is actually happening is that you need to take into account childhood subconscious programming and the possibility that your ego desires will not serve your life purpose and the grand scheme of things.


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